Friday, November 14, 2008

A brand new day!!

Thank you all for commenting.

I have made a decision. I cannot keep this child lie, and I will not betray him. I will do what most mothers do. Talk to him and tell him that he has to tell them, but I will help him out, as I always do when the kids need to tell their dad something. I am also setting up an appointment with Kaiser Behavioral Health, nothing wrong with a little counseling if you need it.

I will tell my husband first, so that it lowers the blow. I will also tell his dad the same way for the same reason. He is going over his dad house this weekend so I will tell him Monday – that way he has a whole week before he sees him again.

It is not as bad as it seems – but for a kid (yes I know he is 19, but have you ever disappointed your parents?), I guess it seems like it; I just do not want to hold the lie.

Moving on!!

What do you all have planned for today? Me?

Well, I have been up since 3 a.m. I could not sleep (I wonder why). Therefore, I got up and made Anger Management (and fam) some breakfast to take with her on her trip to NYC. Of course, the food woke up Mr. Stefon as well. Since I was up, I got a head start on one of two papers I need to complete. The husband and I are going out when we get off. I cannot wait.

Anger Mgmt is in New York today with her Entrepreneurship class. They are giving the kids money to buy items they can sell once they return. Isn’t that just nice!! I wish someone would give me money to spend!!! I told her she needs to figure out a plan before she gets there and do not share her idea or someone might take it (yes her mamma is competitive) and she might have competition. She said, she thinks she is going for hats and scarves for the girls.

Mr. Stefon has been excellent lately (knock on wood hard as hell). I asked him if he wanted to read Harry Potter together and he said he would have to let me know.


Carmell said...

yeah i did that when my husband's son told me he was having sex and thought he had a STD at the age of 15. my husband thought he was a virgin. i told my husband to act surprised when he told him then take his ass to the clinic. it all worked out fine. my step son is only 10 years younger than me so i feel more like his big sister than a mother.
good choice!!! have fun on your date.

Knitaholictoo said...

Sorry I didn't get back to you. But I think you made the best decision. Secrets, to me anyway, are like cancer.

Enjoy your time with hubby.

Pajnstl said...

hahahah @ hard as hell! Mr. Stephon keeps you close to jesus :)

i'm still in bed! I swear i dont want to leave

n0days0ff said...

You gotta make an appointment just to read harry potter? Kids these days are a trip